Friends, let me introduce you to concepts in self esteem that make people wonder what they had been thinking all this time about themselves. We will do a number of these over the next weeks so you can take up each of these over a period of ten days, work in it and move on to the next.
A question that I want to ask you…Are you important to someone?? Think about it…I repeat, Are you important to someone…anyone??? In the area of work, relationships, friends!!! Why don’t you write this down, do you do something for others that is useful to them, most likely you are a useful
person in some way or the other, maybe something small…but you are IMPORTANT….You’re important to SOMEONE.
Let’s take a look at things around us, everything around us solves a problem and there is always someone who solves that problem. Every person who is doing something is solving something for another. BASED ON THIS LOGIC, THERE IS MOST LIKELY SOMEONE WHOSE PROBLEM ONLY YOU CAN UNIQUELY SOLVE. IT COULD BE A PRODUCT, A SERVICE, A GESTURE, A WORD, SOME ADVICE, SOME THINGS THAT CAN HELP SOMEONE SOLVES THEIR PROBLEM TODAY.
Think about it and make a note of ALL the problems YOU CAN SOLVE, WHAT IS IT THAT YOU ARE ALREADY DOING TO MAKE THINGS BETTER FOR OTHERS.I am sure all of us have qualities and some special gifts that we can offer to others and make things better for them.
IDENTIFY THE THINGS THAT YOU ENJOY DOING WHICH MAKE THINGS EASIER FOR OTHERS..IN THE LONG RUN WHAT YOU DO FOR OTHERS CREATES VALUE FOR THEM AS WELL AS FOR YOURSELF.YOU GET PAID IN VARIOUS WAYS IN PROPORTION TO THE NUMBER OF PROBLEMS YOU SOLVE FOR OTHERS.
Most often people end up thinking what is great about myself… this is the GREATEST thing about YOU. All of us are born different and you have to find your difference .What IMPACT/USEFULNESS you can create for others by being different. What you can do, probably I cannot…so think about it and feel good about all that you can do .Share it. Give it. Profit from it.
You’re important to someone somewhere. You’re important to me!! I appreciate your comments on my blogs and it feels good the writings help the readers in their lives in some way or the other.
My goal while I communicate with you is to help you BE more, DO more and HAVE more. And I
know you’re ready for more confidence , personal power and happier living ,am I
right? I believe I am…Make today that special day when you find out who you are important to because YOU solve something for them and feel GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF..You are important to someone!!!
Your friend and Coach ABHA